Do NOT call him again. Sadly, he isn't in a place to provide support or compassion. He of course loves her, but is very lost.
Take care of your daughter. Tell her Daddy is busy working, that he loves her very much, wants her better, and distract her by coloring a picture for him. Change the subject.
I have been there. I had both girls down with the puking flu all night one night, and H wasn't home. I never once called him though. I couldn't bring myself to do it.
