After 3 long years, H is home

[Snow White]

Good morning GF, I didn't get a chance to respond when I read your post last night about being frustrated glad to know that this morning things look so sunny again. You and your H are really doing a great job of working through anything that pops up with clear communication.

I do have to tell you I got a call on my cell last night while I was taking my daughter to gymnastics from H saying this is really interesting reading this email between you and VA then he hung up. Racked my brain and finally decided that no matter waht was in the email it was nothing damaging to me he could just see how I feel about his behaviour.

He actually was not the least bit upset about it when I got home, just asked a few questions like what does OW mean?

Strange but I think it was a good thing for him to read the things I said to you directed to somone else because then they don't seem like made up excuses to control him. For example the fact that one of the reasons I was concerned about him going out was drinking and driving.

Later in the evening I mentioned my new plan(that I really did think about yesterday) that I would check the computer in the morning - banking ect, then that was it for the day, I am on it too much. H replies isn't that what your friend told you at the beginning of march. Geez, he woulnd't have remembered the email so much if I wrote it to him.

Sorry to hijack your thread but since I am taking some time off mine, and this is directly to you, I thought it would be ok just this once.