Last night, I was very nervous and upset, due to what happened yesterday morning, and waiting for my W to get home from work. When she finally did, she sort of acted like there was nothing to discuss. She was in sort of a punchy, happy mood, and tired from work (I don't have concerns about her while she's at work. As a hospital nurse, there really aren't opportunities to further an A there).
Either I'm off my rocker or she is, because I thought it was clear that she was going to announce her decision about whether she was going to continue to contact/see the OG. She said "no, no, of course I've made my decision not to continue the A" (uh, no honey, that wasn't at all clear). She said that she was just PO'd about my snooping, and that she just reacted angrily to all my questions. She also said again that it had just been hard to go cold-turkey from this guy. But she also said that, after one more goodbye call (a short one, she said), it really would be over.
She said the right things, told me what I needed to hear. Now, in the bliss of hope and ignorance, I can go on my trip thinking that she will really finally end the A, and be ready to start the long road back to a good M. It sucks to have to be gone during these next crucial days, but maybe it's for the best for her to have to do what needs to be done on her own, without the fear of getting caught. If she follows through, it will have been because she decided to do it, not because I hounded her into it.
I'll talk to you guys either from Japan or after I get back.
