I forgot to mention I am taking a hooping class on Sunday. This will be six weeks of learning tricks and working on a routine. I have been hooping all my life, even won a contest when I was in 5th grade...It has gone through a metamorphosis in modern times. Take a look at this video by Fat Boy Slim .
I was talking with a D'd colleague at work. He divorced a few years before I did and was a good person to talk through as I move through the stages. I told him yesterday that I am "dating".
He said, "In general, or someone in particular" I said "both".
As we were talking he commented that it is so important to wait until the time is right to start dating. And then he said to me, "Aren't you in such a better place now? I mean everything. You aren't in a bad marriage, you have gone through so much growth, life is just so much better now, isn't it?"
And I had to agree.
Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker