How to get past the sex thing

[sage]

I know I should try to be the guy she married. I don't feel much like him right now. I just feel like a worn out, sad, pathetic loser who's obsessed with something he has little control over. I realize that this guy is no fun to be around.

Really? 'cause I see a dedicated, loving, concerned, intelligent, committed, articulate man who is using his strength to save his marriage.

And I will try to be more clued into the signs of what is working, and what is not.

Good!

Sage