Well, I just got a response from WW. It wasn't pretty. I'll quote a few things.

"she's not willing to operate under these conditions". She feels my letter is asking her to be controlled by me, much like a prison inmate.

She wants me to believe what she says is true. How do you respond to that when someone has done nothing but lie to you for over a year?

She's not going to prove herself to me. I either take her as she is, apologetic, perhaps a little broken but by no means groveling, or not at all.

She thinks my letter is all about me. I'm doing nothing but putting demands on her. She thinks I've tried to make her look bad in everyone's eyes.

She says she's not going anywhere until DS16 graduates.

It says alot more, but that's the gist.

HELP.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.