try to stay away from the relationship talk. It just leads us into a mess. Remember, you can't talk her into this. It's something she is going to need to go through and find herself.
Also, getting alot if information from W may or may not be a good thing imo. In my case, i was very nosey about my w...this leads to me assuming everything. Now when i have to go in my house (i'm seperated) i get what i need and leave. Its hard sometimes, but i let it go. Hang in there. your doing a good job!!!!
