dcr - I read your post after finishing my previous post. As I said, I sure hope I don't have to make any decisions about an ultimatum. It's now been almost a week (the longest week of my life) and I think that she has stayed away from the OG. I'm going to reduce the snooping and concentrate on being the person I used to be, and making the changes I know that she would appreciate. I wish the road to a good M looked shorter.
