Puppy Dog is soooo right. I am very sorry. It hurts so much when they choose to continue the A. I was honestly shocked when my H continued it after he confessed. I naively believe "Wifey knows, affair is over". Nope. Glad you cleared things up with FIL.

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She didn't come home until 4:50 am (sadly, I was waiting up for her and pretended to sleep).


Oh I feel for you. So many times, I have been there. Its dark, lonely and downright miserable. The one benefit of you two living in separate houses is peace from that.

Take care.