I am popping in from infidelity but wanted to say I know how hard it was for you to get through the night. Its horribly painful. And yes, you are right, you woke up this morning, the sun came up, your daughter is happy and healthy and you started the day. You woke up with your morals intact, your H did not. Hold your head high.
I know your H agreed to MC and this is a good thing, but honestly, I don't see why *you* would agree to it at this time. Your H is (sorry) ML to another woman, spending nights away from home, and doing it out in the open. Why does *he* deserve for you to work on the marriage right now? No matter what the situation of your marriage was before the A, the A is never EVER justified. I really question the benefit of MC when there is a third person involved.
Did you move his stuff to another room? I fully agree with this. Don't do it spitefully, and no need to explain a thing to him. He'll understand.
I am so sorry. It feels like it will kill us, doesn't it?
