I just got the book 2 days ago and I have read it 3 times.
The part that really hits home with me is that they try to "push your bottons" big time to get you to react negatively to them. My ex is trying every thing he can. I will make sure it does not work.
They try so hard to make you act like a raving bitch.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11