Thanks for your advice. Not sure what to do about my situation now. I found out today by snooping who the OM is, his address, phone number and also that my W and he are going on a weekend getaway elsewhere in Europe. She arrives back in the UK the day before April 14, the day she said she's coming home on.
Now I feel nothing but contempt and disgust for her. I have no idea what to do but many many thoughts are going through my mind. I have no kids with her - I don't know whether to just cut lose and start again. I am still relatively young at 31 and have time. Do I call her on this if and when she comes home, or do I ask her if she is 100% about us too beforehand? She just cannot seem to quit either me or him.
I am really at the end of my rope here. Unbelieveable. Please help.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
