Wow, I hadn't realized I had so many responses from last week! I have not been on my own thread since then. Thanks to everyone!!
Our camping trip went fine. It was a little chilly, but could have been worse. It only rained overnight. H was there as usual. He loves tending the campfire and helping out with the cooking where he can. He went home on Friday and Saturday nights. I know he was there just because of the chores he got done, and he also called me a few times, too (altho cell service is not good where we were).
As far as OW, we are seeing a lawyer. I feel I can't go into details here. Basically, she has a lawyer, actually someone my H set her up with. This guy has paperwork all ready to go to sue us for her medical bills. Great. I did learn that about 50% of them were waived. One bit of good news. H suggested we talk to a lawyer on our own to find out how to protect ourselves (or me and D14) and that OW would not know of this! It's going to be an interesting summer.
I'm still working up to moving over to piecing. I think what is stopping me is that H and I have not had a real R conversation in a long time. The last time we had one, the A had not ended. I want to ask him: Are we really working on this? Meaning us, our R, our M?
Knowing him, he'll probably answer, I thought's that what we were doing. Yeah, hunny, but I need to hear it, not assume it.
