Davis and kjb - I think that I agree with you both. On the one hand, I don't think I can put up with "this nonsense" for long. I just would not be able to emotionally handle an OA. On the other hand, I really really don't want a D and I somehow think that I should allow for one or two slipups while she gets over this "addiction". I won't ask for a D unless I have decided that it's the only way.
