How do they walk away?

[ddstartingover]

Treese - just stopping in to lend some support. As you can see, I've changed my user ID---I know I'm paranoid, just a feeling that H has read my posts.

I haven't really heard much from H since my LAST e-mail saying that I would not discuss D by e-mail and I will not tell the kids or the world that D is a mutual decision. He's been more angry this week. He is normally such a loving caring person, but he has not didn't say one word to me when I told him my back was acting up; I lost the school board election; and told him I was going to the dentist because I had a crown fall off. It's like he's decided not to care.........

I wish I had some words of advice (but I'm in need of some myself), other than hang in there and try to really let go. Some days I just get angry about the control that H has over the situation. We need to get control of ourselves, and let them be..............