Addie, IMO you should do whatever you feel will help YOU to DB better.
I know that I wouldn't be able to stay in the same house with H without getting my hopes up, I'd backslide every now and then and in general it would be too much stress for everybody. H is coming in May for 10 days and I'm nerveous already. I'd say "no".
But it's me. If you think it will be easier for you to keep DBing with H in the house, then by all means go for it. But don't do it because of finances. In any case whatever you've been doing is working, now you have to do more of it.


I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08