Please help me! Wife wants out! (5)

[steve477]

Thanks Sandi

You are too kind to me!

I feel like you son felt.

But, he just told me that I was wanting him to remain a boy and not accept the fact that he was his own man now. He said he had always went along with whatever the family wanted him to do b/c he did not want to cause hard feelings, but no more b/c he had grown up and I was going to have to live with that fact.

That is pretty much it. I dont know if I am going to have to say that directly to my mother or not, but I will if I have to.

The family will come around at some point. Right now, the W and baby are your priority.

Yes, always have been, and always will. From now, the main difference will be that I will actively show W that she is the priority, and not just assume that she knows.

I think your W is showing several signs that she is liking what she is seeing in her "new" husband.

I think so, but I think that also confuses her and maybe scares her a little, like what Rob said before.

I'm just saying "maybe" she does want you to "take her" and be very passionate with her. She has seen these other changes in you, maybe she is wondering if you have changed in bed also??? Tricky situation, so be careful. As Saffie said, we are a complex creature!

Women!! I am sure that when the time comes that is what my W wants. But I dont think that time is anytime soon, so I wont get my hopes up. I am just making sure to be well dressed, and smell nice and be nicely groomed (all over ;)). Oh and wearing nice underwear.... just in case!lol.

I just feel that this time that you have coming up to "relax" together is going to have some good results.

I really hope so, but at the same time I am trying not to hope!

Steve, I love your sense of humor. I hope you show that side of yourself to your wife. That is also a good way to gradually get back into a closer relationship with her. Having a good time, relaxing with each other, playing or flirting with a sense of humor, and not talking R will get you there quicker than anything else.

Yes, we are making each other laugh again. Bring back a few of those `private jokes`.

Been trying to sleep together recently, but she has not been sleeping well while I am there, so I have called it off for now. If we will try, I have suggested doing it at the weekend when we have more time to relax, and dont need to get up for work. She said she needs space in the bed, even though I am on the edge of my side lol! She said she has to think about not moving. I told her that we dont need to rush this, that when the time is right we will be ok. We got used to sleeping with each other before, and we can do it again. She said she might be feeling like this at the moment because of being pregnant. She is still a bit sick with it at the moment. She has a bad back, form working at the PC in work. SO none of this is helping. I can wait a while more for this to happen.

Cheers

Steve