Wow, Tomcat I don't have time to respond to your wacky update. Just wanted to say don't sweat small stuff like 10$. Give it to her, at least for now. You can afford that much and it won't irk her as your refusal surely would. You'll avoid a conflict and for $10 it's worth it. Besides, if you say no, you will have less and less contact and when you say yes (try to drop it off to her in person if you can) you'll be able to show her the new you, etc.
AVOID LAWYER TALK...OMG this is a big one. Why pay them to handle the crap only to bring it up in person to your Wife? What possible purpose is served? Bring up the L talk when you want to launch your nukes b/c you don't care about the M anymore. A few exceptions to that may exist, but for now I'd avoid legal discussions like the plague. Refer legal matters to your lawyer, and refer her L to your L, etc. Your focus is on the boys, your new life and future, your 180's, how great a guy you are, and basically being a man that only a fool would leave.
She's got some real issues going on. Is she doing drugs? I'm serious, even prescription abuse comes to mind. She is simply too forgetful. Your older son had surgery?! She forgot?!?! Or did she think he should be all better by now....?? wth? MLC/Change of Life, etc.
gotta go, more later. hang in there. You're a better man for this, no matter what. You'll never regret behaving with dignity in the face of pain and adversity and your sons are watching you. Model forgiveness for them, so they can learn it for themselves, and for their mother. (( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
