Dbs...my best advice would be to let her lead and you follow. Be her friend first. Be a listening ear. Empathize with her. DO NOT rush her or get angry, frustrated etc. Let her come to you in her time. It is a good thing for all involved she is throwing the order of protection out the window, roll with it my friend! If she talks about being lonely, listen...if you rush in and say let's do something...it may push her away...give it a little time. Listen, be a friend, and say something sweet like "yeah being alone is tough, if you would ever like to talk, you know how to get in touch with me." That way she knows you are there and available to her..but she won't feel pressured either.

Be patient...be her friend.... \:\) NO pressure....calm, cool, and collected!

hope it helps...questions just ask \:\)
take care & good luck!
christarn

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

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