My attorney informed me today that my wife is going to quash the protection order she put in force for no real reason a few months ago so that we can both participate in several family gigs in the next few months. This may indeed be my last chance to do it better than the previous begging, pleading and lecturing program. I am comitted to letting her do the contacting, not acting to needy or clingy, and trying to be freindly without appearing needy. I am curious what I should say if the topic of the absurd po comes up? Should I let her know she can call me anytime as she was doing previously? She has expressed how absolutley lonely and miserable she is and has been for the last 5 months since she quit having regular face to face contacts with me. I want to do this right for the both of us and our family. ideas?