Scott, Thanks for the words of encouragement. It is really great to hear from you! How are you doing? How are the girls? I'll be sending you an email if you don't post your sitch before that. STBXW... Yep. I've been wondering at what point that acronym clicks into place. I think it finally did for me Monday night. They say you know when it's over -- well, it's over. I'm no longer going to blame myself for trying and not succeeding. I just feel so bad for my kids -- they don't deserve this.
Joie, I'm looking forward to your post about how you're doing.
Theoden, I am extremely honored when you share your wisdom. I am but a simple housecarl -- well, not even that,... an humble thane, maybe? In any event I know my duty is to serve with honor for the sake of my children.
Originally Posted By: Theoden
It's all been paid for. You know what I'm talking about.
Yes. I certainly do, and it is a ransom I can never repay. Many thanks and best regards.
Tal, Husband, I have taken the lesser position -- as the reorganization unfolds I will adapt as best as I can, while renewing my search for another job. The drawback is that I will again be under 90 days "probation" for the new position -- which means the time served in probation for my current position was for naught. But the important thing is that I can maintain my benefits and accrued vacation time a while longer until I find something else.
The other benefit is that I am hoping that I will be able to convince my boss to allow me to work fewer hours -- "fewer" here means closer to the traditional 40-hour work week, instead of the 50 to 60 hour weeks now. That way I'll be free to take on additional time with my S's. It may be that this could turn out to be a blessing in disguise.
