Here's where DBing makes a difference in my actions. OK, well it makes a difference all the time, but... H called to say g'night to the kids and we spoke for a bit. He had just finished a workout, trying to release some stress. Didn't say anything about Saturday. The old me would have brought it up and forced the issue. Instead I'm letting it just come when it comes. That might not be until Saturday afternoon. I know this. I'm OK with this.
In the meantime, I've got to think of a cool/light/fun thing to do should we actually meet up. Then I've got to plan on going downtown afterwards, or have something else fun planned though I'm honestly probably going to want to go to bed early because Sunday's a busy day.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09