Sorry to here about your sitch. I'm going thruogh similar. My W was open and honest about being on the computer and sexually talking to both girls and guys. A t first I though I was ok with it because see was using fake picturesand not using her real name.
But now she has some reguler guys and girls she talks to and has taken pictures of her self(of face and other parts) To me it feels worse than if I caught her in bed with another guy. I want to track her on the computer but I know it wouldn't do anygood. Please let me know what kind of program you used and can a guy who is computer challanged install it and not get caught.
I need to know if my fears are base less or are all my fears just the beginning? I hope that we both can get through ooour hard times keep your head up.