i had not eaten or drank a thing today until tonight.
h called S17 and talked to him for two hours today, and he told S17 that he is an emotional mess, never said a word about ow, or about moving out or about divorce. S17 did tell him that he noticed i was very upset today.
S17 did not divulge the conversation they had to me which is okay.
I need to get some much needed sleep and tomorrow I am working another full day.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hi Steelers- I hope things get easier for you. Your H truly seems to be to be fighting his demons right now. Maybe this is the absolute bottom and there is no where to go but up from here.
I have heard about customer service jobs that you can do from home via the phone and internet that are supposed to be very flexible. I don't really know much about this, whether or not these jobs easy to come by or not. Anyway, I thought it might be something might want to look into if you were interested in trying to bring in more income but still be able to be there for your kids.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. You have been so patient and compassionate...you deserve good things to come your way.
CSR JOBS AER VERY FLEXIBLE..AND GET OUT AND MAKE NEW FRIENDS.....AND HAHAHA YOU GET TO BE ON THE COMPUTER ALOT...
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
he has been okay. we have been sitting out back just small talk but it has been okay.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
[SF, he is saying some scary stuff, at least scary to me the way you have related it. I believe he's got some significant emotional issues going on. Even his refusal for counseling is a danger sign of someone who could potentially be facing a serious mental health issue. The constant drinking doesn't help either. Put that together with general paranoia and this sense that he's being used by those around him, wow, you've got quite the pressure cooker going on inside your man.
Steelers- this really hit home from BWORL for me. My H said he won't go back to c - "It was the same thign week after week.." WELL YEAH -- you were facing stuff... But they don't want to .. Bill is right -- he is very unstable.
You know this - and I do think Bill was right about one other thing - - our kids they are smarter than we think. Trust what they say --- be wise.
I am sorry you are going through this Hell.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
noticed she texted him lastnight and he did not respond until this afternoon. what the contents were i do not know.
my instinct says to be still and allow God to work on this, not me.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Please don't let him get you spinning out of control. No matter what you do, he will not be happy until he is through all this.
Keep gently trying to urge him to see a doctor. The lump you talked about could be very serious.
Take care of you, my dear. Eat and rest if you can.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
