I don't think the LRT is right for now. She is talking to me a little more now, nothing positive but it is still talk.
Her affair is out in the open now, and god does that hurt. Like Sandi2 said it is part of her healing process.
I have a good friend who went through an alomst identical situation with his W a few years back, amd he is telling me that the M can be fixed. Knowing him as well as I do I believe him. With out knowing all of the details, he has told me what she has already done without me having to tell him. He and his wife are happier than they have ever been and the M is coming up on 25 years.
I am going to hang in there, I owe myself that much. If things can work out I owe my W all of the honesty and respect that can be given for the rest of our lives.
