Thanks for checking in. I'm okay, though the process of packing is hard. Passed W while out on a run this AM - just said good morning in as pleasant a voice as possible and kept going. Usually I would have run with her, but didn't feel like it, so ran on ahead - I'm faster than her.
I emailed her on Monday after she got back from her trip and told her I'd rented a place and asked if we could split the joint account and discuss property division so I could pack. She said she'd come over this weekend and would work on getting paperwork together - D papers? I thought she couldn't serve them to me. Or just bank stuff? Guess I'll find out, but am surprised I haven't been served yet. Anyway, I'm sure this will be a process that's just great fun - going through the house, garage, and shed and deciding who gets what.
Part of me doesn't know how to act - I need to get this stuff taken care of for my move, but also feel like I'm helping to push the D. Oh well, this is CA - we still have to wait 6 months and it hasn't even been 6 months since the bomb. It'll be 6 months towards the end of this month.
