Oh tal.....I just cried. The things you said are so sweet. Your last comment really hit home. It's really a yucky, messy day. On the way home I noticed that the wipers on my van need to be replaced. Believe it or not, I have always done all those things on my own. Oil changes, wipers, plates/tags....everything. On the major issues, I'd let H know that they needed to be done and he'd call his dad to call our mechanic. However, I always needed to push H on it. I was thinking about how I just want someone to take care of me. I know I can do it on my own. I've done it for years. But I want someone there for me. Someone who will say...I'll take care of it. I feel lonely.

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day