Im so proud of you. You have come such a long way. I can feel the strength in your post. You have come passed the stage of begging, way past. You want to get on with your life, and this is a good thing. Now you have to decide if you are going to wait for him to make the first move, or are you? I can't answer which is better, but you have to do what's right for you and your daughter.
He will not change unless he wants to, and even though he's being nice some days, we have seen this before in him, but then he just resorts to his old self. So its some sort of cycle with him. You deserve better and so does your daughter.He will always be her father, that will never change, but you don't have to be part of his hysteria. As long as he is a good father to her, then you can begin to seperate yourself from him and deal with him as your daughter's father and that's all.
I know you will be able to do it sue, you can. You are a wonderful person and I great mom, and somewhere out there is someone who will love and appreciate you as you should be.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
