Nicola: We are both better than we used to be, baby! BTW, I agree about when BOTH parties decide that they are no longer married--I was trying to say the same thing but didn't want to belabor point on your thread.
Thanks for remembering Operation Glue the Cologne Shut--I feel that it was one of my triumphs!
WCW: No, I don't think the shirt is a test. I think he may not even know that her name was in it. He is not at his most observant while under the MLC influence. It is hanging in his closet right now. Here's something else interesting: when he arrived on Tuesday night, he was dressed up as if he'd been to a JW meeting (argh!) and carried his "comfy" clothes. After we were in the throes of passion, he changed into them and left his dressy clothes on the bedroom floor. About 10 minutes or so after he left, he came back for the clothes and said that he'd realized that he left them lying around and apologized for it because it wasn't very nice of him. Crazy, right? I told him that it didn't matter, and he apologized again, so I thanked him for thinking of it. Too bad I didn't get a look inside that shirt as well!
I'm still figuring out my Wisconsin plans. I think I'm supposed to fly into Minneapolis and drvie a few hours. It's all a mystery to me right now--I'll let you know more soon!