H is Having Affair after all - Part 2

[seekpeaceofmind]

He really seems to be flailing around. Maybe getting some legal agreements in place re: child support, maintenance, business will settle things down.
There might still be some unpleasantness over what the legal system says a "fair" division of assets and debts will be. It does cost more to maintain two homes than one and I think the court's goal is for the children to maintain their lifestyle at home. He may find that he has to pay in more than he expects and that his lifestyle will be cramped as a result.

I'm now of the opinion that he does need to be set free, we both do. I don't like a lot of what he has said in his emails, but i have no interest in getting wrapped up in his pettiness or resentments.

Good for you! - its tempting sometimes to challenge all of the BS, but much healthier to let it go. . . .

Good luck tomorrow.