The thing is, and how many times have we said it, you have the distinction of being able to look back and hold your head up high because of how you have handled all of it. You are right and I wouldn't change this for the world!
So mourn, be upset, be sad, be disappointed. Give yourself some time to feel all of these emotions and then come on back to the real world
Thanks, Ian, well said!
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Lets take a look at Julie today:
1. SAHM- now supporting herself and her 2 girls. You forgot to mention that I doing a better job at it (and buying the girls' love in the meantime);) Thank you.
2. Reliant on H- Miss independant.... 'Nuff said...
3. Friends??? Look at the relationships you have forged since all of this started. Thank you and I wouldn't change any of this. I have been blessed as I was telling Bethie this morning. It's all a blessing. But, yeah, I am not used to having to face my emotions. And it's time.
It is all about perspective Jules, so absorb the loss, then focus on how amazing you are and all that you have accomplished while going through something that has devistated many others in your same position. You have a lot to be proud of....... Thanks, Ian, and proud I am. I appreciate the support more than you'll know.