I like your Goals. They are realistic and to the point. Congrats as well on the follow thru.
I think that the trust question is one that we all worry we'll never be able to get back, but luckily we do. I can't go through life thinking that this will happen again. I have to trust my judgement and rely on what I've learned. I'll admit that it's scary but so well worth it!
I like how nic decided that she'd given stbx enough of her life. Great way to put it!