((J))-I think your right on with your 3 points,save herself,MLC,and the two younger ones and the guilt,because they do show her a lot of anger.Thanks for the excellent insight.New update-Wand I had our taxes done together about a month ago.Four days later she came by to pick up some stuff.So I asked do you talk to your lawyer,she said yes this morning.So itold her igot a lawyer 4 days prior to this and just wanted her to know.Well my lawyer called hers the same day,Iwas there ,told them they would be in escrow till this is settled.Well long story short-W called this mourning to find out about the refund checks.I asked what about them.Evidently she didnt know anything!So I told W what was going on she said i really needed that money 2 weeks ago.I said very nicely!I have to think of my family first.W said but you only have to care of son17,I said dont forget S20 and his back operation,recovery time 8-12 months with no complications.She didnt even remember.She said why are you fighting me on this,Boy what a strange statement?Anyways I said if you would like to we can sit down and talk about it,W said I would never sit down and talk!I responded you dont know me now,that person is long gone.Then she says well you dont call me and tell me anything,Dont quite get that one,everything i tell her she seems to forget anyways.Boy this is a long one!!LOL!!Get of the phone still being real nice.W calls back 10 min later saying she called her lawyer and could she borrow 10 bucks for gas,i said sure,i know big softy!she said I could drop it off were she works and that was it,she hung up.So idropped off the money because she wasnt there yet!Boy this is getting weird again!! THanks MIKE!!
Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17 Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after