It worked! He responded with: "Sure, I would like to work out when I drop off the kids, but I most likely will join you." I proposed that I go for a walk/ride while he works out and we can meet up afterwards.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09