Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

[Hope4us]

Thanks Neecy. I guess there is nothing that would stop her from sending the NC letter and turning around and saying to OM, "don't pay attention to that".

The letter makes a difference to me mostly because however little faith I have in her right now, I've read on this board and another board that Waywards will often say they've sent/called/whatever to start NC, but never did. But once it's in writing it takes on more of a contract type feel to it. I guess I was hoping that by it being on paper there would be more of a finality to it.

So am I to say now, well, those boundaries I gave to you as to what I would need to agree to continue our marriage were only suggestions?

Not trying to be argumentative, but we all push for boundaries with our waywards and now it seems like I'm getting advise to not enforce those.

Don't stop posting. I'm not mad at anyone. I love a good arguement.