thanks 25yrs,

i was hoping you'd be around for advice. I kinda of get used to your 2 x4's but know you have me best interests at heart - lol.

Thanks for the advice. I'm sitting here now, sorting through my paperwork to take with me tomorrow. I don't plan to tell h i'm going. I'll ask him to jot down his proposals. If i have learnt anything in this process it's not too react to him or his anger. I'll listen to want he has to say and plan on telling him i need time to think. The only thing i'll agree to tomorrow is the selling of the house, it's the only way forward, I can't afford the bills, let alone half the mortgage.

I'm now of the opinion that he does need to be set free, we both do. I don't like a lot of what he has said in his emails, but i have no interest in getting wrapped up in his pettiness or resentments.

Thanks once again 25yrs/seek for your support.

x evie


P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07