So my issue is that if things don't work out I don't know where I will be and he is making plans for me nearly a year from now. As a friend he is expecting too much from me.
I understand that but I wouldn't be looking at it from the point of view from now to the end of time. Did want to point out that men do look for solutions to problems - you know fixers and so it seems he is working out one for that service stuff. Still worrying awful early but who knows...I would not read into you being there as friends or whatever. I can tell you that often when I am looking for solutions to things like that, I would not be thinking if she was here as W or as a friend...that would not even be part of it.
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I think it could mean progress that he is thinking the way he is or it could mean that he just doesn't know how to be just friends or that he is taking advantage of the fact that I do not want the D.
Or it could mean the moon is made of cheese...we don't know. No matter how much we think. But I think it a big positive that he sees you in his future 7-9 months from now. And so I vote positive.
