Hey Steve - the post before last was all about you - WOW!!!
Didnt even realise!!
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she's your MUM and she would miss you and may well be scared you won't come back - when your child is born you will realise that that can be a very upsetting thought.
There is that, but also as my family is so close knit, there is a control aspect too I think. I think I only notice it because I went away and came back. And if I go, I dont plan to come back. I have to do what I think is best for MY family now. I really dont want to sound heartless, but I really cant make everyone happy. Had a big talk with W about it, and through this I think we actually get closer together. Not that I am trying to use these situations, would rather do without them to be honest. w cooked a lovely dinner tonight. She even put a ketchup heart on my dinner (either that or a ketchup pacman, pretty sure it was a heart though! :)). So that has go to be a good sign. Didnt ask for any kisses or anything, had a few hugs, bit of physical contact, but all naturally occuring. Gave her a back massage before she slept. We are getting along well.
She called me at work today, she was angry with the hospital receptionist, as she wasnt to change her scan appointment but wasnt allowed. She asked me to call, to do something about it. I should protect her she said, stand up for her, (basically be a man for her). Took my chance well. Receptionist was very snooty, and I politly made it know that I was not happy with the way my W as spoken too etc.... changed the appointment. So I got to be a bit of a hero today. These are the challenges I am chomping at the bit for now, chances to prove myself. To me more than anyone else.
Anyway
Speak tomorrow,
Cheers
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
