So are you saying I should tone down the letter into more of a reconciling type letter telling her I know we could be great again, but for me to begin trusting her I need those 3 things from her?

Not to be contrary, but that's just what I said in the note on Tuesday and so far she's ignored it. Do I just need to give her a little more time? A week? A month? Then what do I say? Hey, you still haven't got back to me on my boundaries I have from a month ago?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.