WAW...now the LBS Part 2

[HOPEFULinCALI]

I don't understand this either. Especially saying spouse of vet, does that mean u2 are M? I don't mean this ugly, but when I first read it it sounded like a woman that worries to much. Like you said 7-9 months from now is a long time.

It didn't sound ugly at all. This is what is confusing about the sitch. I don't think that he realizes that after the D we may or may not have much contact beyond the occasional how are you doing. So my issue is that if things don't work out I don't know where I will be and he is making plans for me nearly a year from now. As a friend he is expecting too much from me. For now it is ok, but as a friend he should not expect for me to be there for his every need as he does now.

It is not negative right? Is it working? Progress? I think that something you should be careful about is that leaning thing.

I think it could mean progress that he is thinking the way he is or it could mean that he just doesn't know how to be just friends or that he is taking advantage of the fact that I do not want the D.

gl2u..wish me luck with DB coach this evening

Good luck with your coach!