H is Having Affair after all - Part 2

[Evie]

Thanks Seek,

My heart is telling me to get out of the business, my head is telling me to continue, but be very cautious, Saffie has helped with a lot of advice (Saffie, thankyou my friend)

wait for it there's more:

I told you we were over 12 months ago and I told you 3 days before you asked me to leave - I am not forcing it however it needs to be sorted - I am close to going bankrupt that is why I need to sort - S1 woke crying the other night because he was cold and I cannot afford heating - I now only put heating on when I have the boys and the breakfast you all had used up all my money -that is how skint I am.

Going limited is very controlling and given our circumstance I think its fair to us both - we will both have a salary and no exactly where we stand.

I am not forcing you out the business far from it - you are apart of it and the limited company is in both our names but it is not active - if it were to go active it would give us no flexibility what so ever.

And yes, there is nothing going into the joint account at all apart from £280.00 from me for the boys.

I am happy to change all of this but will not do it unless we sit down and go through how we might go forward. The reason for taking this action is that I don't know where we stand - we need to talk and you keep on refusing to.

Eve - I am not a bas***d - I hate doing this but right now I don't know what else to say - I own and pay for a house that I'm not even allowed into - if it was your house - I would respect every one of your wishes if it was your own house

Please let me know when you want to meet to discuss

My reply:

I will sit down; all I'm asking for is time to get my head around this. The situation is different for me now than it was prior to 5th March. How can you not expect me to have had a set back?
Why are you forcing the issue so much?
Have you sought proper legal advice about going ltd? Not just from the bank or accountant, I'm not sure it's the way forward or are you trying to force me out of the business?

His replY;

I have today cancelled the direct debit of xxx into the joint account and the xxxx from my account into the joint account. The business account is active and I give you my word I wont spend a penny - it will remain until we start to discuss. I have also cancelled your company debit card and your right to sign cheques.

My Reply:

What do you mean by this? Are you now saying that there is now nothing in the joint account to cover the mortgage and bills?

His Reply:

I am really sorry but I cannot give you another 6 months - we need to sit down and discuss things including the business and house etc etc. It has been nearly 8 months since I left home - if I leave it another 6 months who is to say you will be ready then
If the house goes for sale it may well take 12months to sell - it may not even sell at all and to wait another 6 months before we take any action is really silly. If the house is sorted in 18 months time you put your self near the point off having a 15/20 year mortgage which will be very expensive.

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It's a bit disjointed but thats the gist.

I have agreed to sit down with him tomorrow night. I have no choice he has stopped all money into the joint account which pays all the bills and the mortgage. He may be bluffing. What the h*ll.