He texted me later and said that He wanted to work on things but was afraid he wouldnt be given a fair chance and also wouldnt be able to give one....but that he didnt want me to read anything else into that....(hows that for stringing me along)
Have you ever noticed how he always hedges every single thing he says to you?
It's as though he wants to come home...unless you don't want him to, and then he didn't really want to either.
And he wants the other woman...but he wants you too.
I'm proud that you've managed to not yield to this overpowering desire you have inside to let him back in.
You MUST stay the course here.
As long as he is willing and able to talk like this, he is FAR from EVER commiting to a relationship with you.
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he then told me that it sounded like I didnt trust him.....
This is absolute insanity and a wonderful piece of evidence that he is nowhere close to being a man that you would want living with you, let alone in a relationship with again.
Stay the course. You deserve full honesty, full commitment, full devotion, not a man who can't decide which woman he really wants.
Second place sucks.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
