I think sh has a good suggestion that I want to follow for myslef, "stop looking for signs".
I don't think thta means ignore any positives you might see. I think we should still give affirmation for any positives that our H's display and really try to enjoy those positives. But I'm not going to think of any nice things from my H as "baby steps." "baby steps" to me implies that he is coming closer and my H is clearly not right now.
I will think nice things are just nice things and that is all, nothing more. (it is hard, sh!)
Nature Girl M 40 H 40 M 15, T 19 D11 S9 bomb 3/07 (MOW)
Hi peace, I take yoga classes through our local community center. Do you have any community centers or adult education centers that you could check with? They may want to start a class, if they don't have one already. Good luck! I love my yoga.
Thanks NG NA SH you guys You gave me some really good ideas about my business and I guess it doesnt matter if I dont make any money for now..I can get busy promoting it and practicing selling myself! I just need to get busy and believe it can become a real business
I have no expectations at least for today when s called H today, seemed like H was trying to keep S on phone H asking S6 questions about school then H came over He ate dinner here He usually refuses food we exchanged a few words nothing really I am tired and need a H break D went to youth group and I left- had some shopping to return ect and I didnt want socialize with H tonight thanks for visiting peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Hello peace- I bet we could really brain storm here to get you lots of ideas for your business...could be fun...and a lot better than thinking about our sitches. So are you looking to have your own studio? Besides yoga, what other services would you offer?
sh is right...don't look for signs...just live. I am watching Primetime: The Last Lecture right now. Did you watch it? I think you can watch it on utube...it is so inspiring...and a reminder that we all have so many blessing that we just shouldn't take for granted.
You are doing so well. You are making it through this even if you don't have answers yet...have faith that those will come in time.
Hi Thanks Upside and NG wow I just had C the first time all year I didnt talk about H thats a miracle I need to do some work on myself as now I have the time in case he shoild return, it might get busier I am going to do some acupunture to release some of this grief and check my body to see if I am not releasing negative feelings and I want to put H on a shelf I have to repair myself and rebuild my life got to try to move on then I think more clarity will come My H looks a mess peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
I am going to do some acupunture to release some of this grief and check my body to see if I am not releasing negative feelings and I want to put H on a shelf I have to repair myself and rebuild my life got to try to move on then I think more clarity will come
hi peace- That sounds like a great plan. Focus on what you can change- YOU!
Hi peace- That is a big deal to go to the C and not talk about H...I'm not there yet...he is most of what we talk about.
Have you ever had acupunture before? That is an idea that I haven't seen anybody else come up with...Let me know if it helps.
I like that you are focusing on you and what is going to make your life better. This is where we all need to be. I feel like I get there sometimes but then I get sucked back in...try to avoid that if you can.
Hi Peace, Good idea to focus on yourself. When you have healed yourself, your H will see it and also want that to happen to him. It can be the catalyst for him to work on himself.
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I am going to do some acupunture to release some of this grief and check my body to see if I am not releasing negative feelings
Have you heard of cranio-sacral therapy. That can be very powerful in ridding the body of accumulated stress and negative emotions. My chiropractor does a great job at that. -PH
