OK, if anyone's reading this, can I get some advice? H just sent me this email in response to me telling him the hardwood is in and I've lined up a truck this weekend to use to pick it up.

"What are your plans for the weekend, do you want to hang around with us or are you busy? I don’t have anything specific lined up.

Oh yeah, Saturday is parents night out, right (yes, I’m clueless)."

Parent's night out is at our health club, the kids are entertained and fed from 4:30-8:30pm. I signed them up a few weeks ago, mentioned that I'd be doing some art stuff and told him he was welcome to come join me, but no response.

Last weekend I mentioned that I was thinking about meeting some mutual friends for the art stuff and asked him if he wanted to join us. He just said, "well, parent's night out ends pretty early." but nothing else.

So, do I jump in and see if he wants to come to the art thing/do dinner with me/anything while the kids are busy?


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.