Ok I get it now, its the approach that I need to take when I reject him. At times I feel like the guy, being the one that is not sensitive enough to his needs.
We are driving, and its at a hotel, and you are right for the surprise I would like it to be bedroom related. But that could lead itself into a problem that I mentioned before...is this something that she did with the OM...I would like it to be something 'sweet' not 'hot' if it goes there that is fine.
