HI all; Another thread locked.......

Need quick advice....got a call today from a friend that said my H told him he was getting divorced....do I ask H about this?

My heart just dropped to my stomach.....now I'm just sick...

Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity