I think we are in a rut

[Starshyne]

I personally don't think that snooping is wrong 100% of the time. There are times when you really have no choice but to snoop. When your S is not being upfront and hiding things and you have a reason to know what is going on. Living in ignorance is not ideal for any of us. We may not need to know all of the details of an A, but the fact that one is going on is something that needs to be revealed and if your S isn't telling you the truth or the whole truth, then what else can you do?

Some people snoop all of the time. They have no real reason to snoop and THAT is what causes a lot of problems.

You also have to be prepared for whatever you discover when you snoop and figure out what you are going to do with the information.

Snooping all of the time isn't good. Occassionally snooping is at times needed. Why did you look at the webpage? Did you need to find out some hidden truth or were you just nosey?

I know that the times I have snooped when I had no real reason to made me feel bad afterwards. Although who am I to talk? I still have the OW as a friend on myspace and occassionally look at her page just because....

Sara