I will tell you the only reason for secrecy is to cover a lie. Even my kids notice their dad being more secretive. He hides his phone if he gets a text and once tried to downloan music into ITunes from a CD (from her I suppose) until my son told him it would go on our mutual ITunes account...he flipped out and told him, he didn't want to have his music known to everybody. Yea, my 13yr ask me later why his dad was being so secretive. I told him he should ask his dad what the big deal was.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too