BFM: I think you are very right on. He keeps looking but will never find it.

My salary is enough to pay "my" bills and some of the groceries but not all. My bills are actually the internet, health insurance, a store charge card for when i have bought the kids clothes/shoes, etc.

I was just in shock that he said he was searching for divorce lawyers.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19