Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

[Hope4us]

Use my notes all you want H4H. I don't know your sitch (I see this is your first post, why not share your story on your own thread and we'll help all we can), but there gets to be a point where you just can't take the disrespect any longer. And the funny thing is, when you get to that point and start enforcing your boundaries it gives you back some of your self respect that your wayward (w or h) has taken from you.

I know it will take me a long time to ever trust again, with my WW or with someone new and that's the part I absolutely hate about this. It's made me into someone I don't even know. And it will take a long time to find that person again, but it can't start until you have some respect for yourself and stop living your life through your wife. If she wants to come along, great, but if not, I'll be fine without her.